SHE DISES DISABILITIES!

French director Catherine Breillat (art house faves “Romance”, “Fat Girl”, etc.) has a new film opening in the U.S. Friday July 4th…one that involves a much larger canvas and budget than her earlier films. I was reading about it in a Sheri Linden L.A. Times article the other day, and what struck me even more than the description of the film,
“The Last Mistress”, an adaptation of Jules-Amedee Barbey d’Aurevilly’s 1851 novel (how’d ya like to go thru life with a name like that??), was the description of Ms. Breillat! Not only is she a 59 year old FEMALE DIRECTOR (already puts her in pretty rare company), but she has suffered numerous strokes, including a 2004 cerebral hemorrage that left her partly paralyzed and delayed “Mistress” for a year. But inspite of that, not only did she finish a film set in 1835 Paris of a novelistic scope in this, her 11th film, but this fall she begins shooting her version of “Bluebeard” (she promises it will scandalize!) and then plans on shooting a film based on her own politically incorret novel, “Bad Love.” When I think of the difficulty of dealing with such physical problems and shooting a film at the same time, it floors me! Well obviously it didn’t floor her…as she says in the article, “I’m simply not made to inhabit a world of disabilities”. Good for her, I say!
If she can dis her disabilities so can I, and so can you! I’ll be the first in line this Friday to support such downright gumption.

Judith Drake, blogger for In The Trenches Productions, The First Entertainment Website Celebrating the Power and Beauty of Women Over 40

Published in: Bravo | on July 2nd, 2008 | No Comments »

Get A Job Mom!

I don’t know why but it surprised me so much when my son said to me yesterday, “I think you should get a job mom”. Actually I think it hurt my feelings. It hurt because I do have a job, actually many jobs. One, I am a full time wife and mom and I am at my family’s disposal WHENEVER they need it and then some. Two, I am working with 3 other gals and we are trying to get our web site known and profitable.  We are doing all the work ourselves and I truly believe it is inspiring, rewarding, informative, entertaining, and will be successful.   Three, I have a profession in the arts that I keep up with but I’m over 5o so there are fewer opportunities to make money there. Four, I have always participated in my community and various causes, social as well as political. Five, I am a really good friend.  Six, I have a very serious illness that does take up a lot of my time.

I could list other jobs but that’s not the point. The point is that none of these jobs make any real money. And when push comes to shove, like a bad economy, money is what matters. So when you don’t go to a regular job with regular hours and come home with regular paychecks, many people, even good people that I love, don’t really count all your efforts as valuable.

Now don’t get me wrong. I am talking about RESPECT here. If one were talking about the lack of money to pay the essential bills one would do ANYTHING to contribute and avoid ending up on the street. But it’s not that.  Yes, our family could always use extra money to make our lives even better but believe me I am trying to do that.   I guess sensing from my son and husband that I am not held in high esteem because I don’t make much money is upsetting.

Any one out there experiencing the same thing and how do you handle it?

Claire Callaway, blogger for IN THE TRENCHES PRODUCTIONS, The First Entertainment Website Celebrating the Power of Women Over 40.

Published in: Life | on June 30th, 2008 | 5 Comments »

It’s GOSCH, By Gosh!!

Think its only companies like 20th Century, NBC, Paramount, etc, steeped in production work here in Hollywood Land? Well think again! There are lots of small production companies up to their movie projector switches in work, and one of the best is GOSCH PRODUCTIONS, hiding behind a little blue door in Burbank.

It is a complete production and post production co. started by Pat Gosch and her husband 21 years ago, and at the ripe old age of 68, Pat is busier than ever.  They’ve directed, written, video taped, filmed and edited over four hundred films, commercials and videos. And, by gosh, we now have a clip from their pilot production, LITTLE DREAM FACTORY, in our ‘Films By Others’ section under “Films By You” on the In the Trenches Productions Website! I can only hope that they are able to get this pilot seen, as I think it would make a really fun show. Directed by Bob Basso, it follows the ins & outs and daily stories of a little indy film company…found behind a little blue door. Featuring actors like Jamie Lee Curtis and G.W. Baily of The Closer, it could give people an interesting behind the doors look at how indy companies survive here in La La Land.

Pat Gosch told me the amusing story of GOSCH PRODUCTIONS’ birth the other day, and it fits right into the subject of indy-ville. She said that she and her husband, after writing, acting and directing in Boston, New York and here in the early 80s, became involved in a group of actors, directors, writers and would-be film makers, who met daily from 6 to 8 in the morning before going to their jobs, in hopes of coming up with projects. Well guess what? The fork ran away with the spoon! i.e. the leader of said group ran off with everyone’s money! So she and her husband, left broke and disallusioned, with only a car full of old film equipment left, ended up turning crap into crepes! They went ahead and shot a pilot that turned into gold…Kiddie’s Castle, with an 8yr old Stacy Ferguson (Fergie) in it (she was recently ranked #35 on the Maxim Magazine ‘Hot 100′ list this year), and GOSCH PRODUCTIONS was on its way to being born.

Testimonials abound: for the 7th year in a row they have shot spots for Children Affected by AIDS, with Pat as a director…and Jaimie Lee Curtis says no one lights her like the Gosches, Blair Underwood (Eclectic Entertainment) praises their technically sound but creative atmosphere, and the cheers pile up.

How could Pat have known on what was possibly the worst day of her life up to then in 1982, at the age of 42, what would grow from the ashes of her dissapointment?  May all of us stick-to-it ladies be rewarded in such a fashion.
Judith remember-we-can-do-it-no-matter-what-ladies Drake, Blogger for In the Trenches Productions, The First Entertainment Website Celebrating the Power and Beauty of Women Over 40

Published in: Announcements, Bravo | on June 26th, 2008 | No Comments »

The Glass Half Full

Do you ever get up in the morning and before your feet touch the ground, or the phone has rung, or before anyone has even said a word, you know it’s going to be a bad day. That happens to me every once in awhile and I don’t know why. We all have difficulties I know. But before I even start to think about them I am feeling queasy. I understand that there maybe several explanations for this. One, there might be issues that didn’t get resolved from the day before. Two, you could have had some bad dreams and not remembered them. Three, you’re probably facing some problems that are going to have to be solved soon. Four, the list could go on and on I guess. But why today before I’ve barely opened my eyes?

Now I am not an inactive person and I have read a thing or two, so I know what to do. As I was having these shaky feelings I went over in my mind all the reasons why I am lucky. I got up and washed my face and brushed my hair. (these are two things I don’t do when I am really depressed) So I can’t be really depressed. I got my family breakfast: fresh made coffee, a very pleasant aroma in the house, cereal–but it was from the health food store which should give me a few points, and some fresh squeezed orange juice with lots of pulp, though in fact it was yesterday’s fresh squeezed from the health food store so I guess it’s a plus and a minus situation. All in all I felt that I looked half way presentable in the morning, that I served kind of a decent breakfast, and everyone left looking alright. (unless they too were hiding scary thoughts—oh I can’t go there). So why this uneasy feeling in me?

I’ve got things to do. For one, to write this blog, which I actually enjoy doing. I don’t think I worry that I really don’t write that well. After all I’m not a real professional writer. So that can’t be it. I’ve got business and personal phone calls to make. (gosh I hope I can make them feeling as I do). I know I just have to push through this melancholy. I know, just do one thing at a time, nothing too difficult so you don’t feel like you failed. I actually did go outside and smelled the roses—it helped for about a minute. What’s wrong with me. I don’t think I am a spoiled woman. I haven’t gotten some things that I dreamed about and I do have a serious health problem and yet I fully and truly know that I am a lucky person. I really mean that.

So why did I wake up this morning with this feeling? I don’t know. This is all I have come up with so far. Sometimes I am a half way person. For what ever reason on some days I just give half an effort or that’s all that’s in me to do. Maybe when I woke up this morning I knew it was a “halfy”. I didn’t have the will, the desire, or the optimum health to do a “wholey”. And maybe on some days that just has to be enough. Besides when you look at the glass and you see that it’s “half full” isn’t that a good thing? So believing that lets me rethink my thoughts and allows me to have a good day after all. This is probably only a “half way” good explanation. Any other thoughts out there? Anyone else having a “halfy” day? I could use some “whole” explanations. But a “half one” would do too.

Claire Callaway, blogger for In the Trenches Productions, The First Entertainment Website Celebrating the Power and Beauty of Women over 40

Published in: Life | on June 23rd, 2008 | No Comments »

THAT OLD TIME SEXISM

Many of us are having a hard time recovering from the fact that we won’t have a female president in 2009. So, I think it is good to reflect on how far we’ve come. Let’s look back to 1943 - when your mother or grandmother might have worked for the first time at a job outside of her home. During WWII, women entered the workplace in droves, and special guidelines were written for male supervisors. My sister emailed an excerpt from the July 1943 issue of “Transportation Magazine” which spells out tips for male supervisors to help them get the most productivity from female employees. Some of the tips are quaint, some laughable but all reflect the paternalism of the time. And as my husband commented, these tips sound more like they’re dealing with a pack of dogs rather than a group of women.

“Pick young married women. They usually have more of a sense of responsibility than their unmarried sisters, they’re less likely to be flirtatious, they need the work or they wouldn’t be doing it. They have the pep and interest to work hard.” In other words, you’ll get more out of peppy married women, who need a job. And let’s face it; single girls are more interested in finding a sailor, chewing gum and listening to Frank Sinatra than learning anything about rivets.

“When you have to use older women, try to get ones who have worked outside the home at some time in their lives. Older women who have never contacted the public have a hard time adapting themselves and are inclined to be cantankerous and fussy.” Cantankerous and fussy?! Darn right that’s how you’d feel because your superiors preferred a young, pretty woman and had to settle for the likes of you. It’s in the phrase, “if you have to use older women.”

“General experience indicates the ‘husky’ girls – those who are just a little on the heavy side – are more even tempered and efficient than their underweight sisters.” The dog analogy hits home – those huskies are better workers than the high strung skinny runts.

“Retain a physician to give each woman you hire a special physical examination – one covering female conditions. This step not only protects against possibilities of lawsuit, but reveals whether the employee-to-be has a female weakness which would make her mentally or physically unfit for the job.” A “special” exam? What exactly does that mean? What about the female condition would make you mentally unfit? Cramps? Fits of the vapors? I’m surprised a fainting couch isn’t suggested as part of the décor.

“Give the female employee a definite day-long schedule of duties so they’ll keep busy without bothering the management for instructions every few minutes. Women make excellent workers when they have their jobs cut out for them but lack initiative in finding work themselves.” Lack of initiative?! Most households in the ‘40’s were run by women who had the work ethic of successful managers. No one gave mothers of that era a master plan for running their households and yet most ran like smooth machines. At my house, every night a home-cooked dinner, including a dessert, was ready at 5:30. Toni Home Permanents happened every 6 months, uniform blouses were ironed everyday, furniture and floors were always spotless, and hands were never idle. My mother, like most women of that generation, had plenty of initiative but the work of housewives was truly under-valued.

“Give every girl an adequate number of rest periods during the day. You have to make some allowances for feminine psychology. A girl has more confidence and is more efficient if she can keep her hair tidied, apply fresh lipstick and wash her hands several times a day.” Yep, there’s nothing like a fresh coat of lipstick to keep you going. Notice when talking about rest and lipstick the workers are called girls.

“Be tactful when issuing instructions or in making criticisms. Women are often sensitive; they can’t shrug off harsh words the way men do. Never ridicule a woman – it breaks her spirit and cuts off her efficiency.” Implied is that you can’t get much work out of someone who is whimpering or sulking all day. But it’s okay to ridicule a man because they’re tough and they can take it. Plus men don’t have feelings. Yeah, right.

“Be reasonably considerate about using strong language around women. Even though a girl’s husband or father may swear vociferously, she’ll grow to dislike a place of business where she hears too much of this.” Actually this tip was probably excellent advice. My mother at 92 might have said damn 3 or 4 times in her life. After uttering such a terrible word she’d turn bright red and then break into a fit of giggles.

“Get enough size variety in operator’s uniforms so that each girl can have a proper fit. This point can’t be stress too much in keeping women happy.” Oh yeah, nothing makes a girl (or her boss!) happier than a nice form-fitting uniform.

Yes, there’s a lot of work yet to be done. But to go from these attitudes a mere 65 years ago to having a woman as a serious contender for President, says to me we have a lot to be proud of.

Jan Bina, blogger for In the Trenches Productions, The First Entertainment Website Celebrating the Power and the Beauty of Women Over 40

Published in: Opinion | on June 21st, 2008 | No Comments »

THREE LETTER WORD FOR PROCESSING LIFE - ART!

I recently checked out the websites of two friends I went to school with in Oklahoma in the 50s…two artists…and it suddenly struck me that growing up in the midwest in the 50s wasn’t, as I thought at the time, a one-way trip to stay-at-home-cook-clean-&have-no-opinions mom-land after all! Kate Kline has been working with fabrics her whole life…I remember her dressing her dolls when we were eight. She has moved on since then to include dressing herself, quilting, welding, pottery, painting and drawing. And my other friend, Sharlee Kuhns has a love affair with colors, as can be seen in her “pillow-face” collection of circus characters.

Not that many of my friends, including these, have not been homemakers and moms and workers, but they also opened themselves up to life, including all the slings and arrows as well as the bouquets, and processed it by expressing it in their artistic endeavors. And I don’t know about them, but looking back over my own life, I see that art and the appreciation of it helped me survive a less than ideal childhood marked with divorce, near poverty, and the early death of my mother. Although I became an actor, I really believe that an art teacher I had in grade school literally showing me how to absorb everything around me, helped me be a really good actor. - One of my fondest memories is his suddenly having our entire class get up, go outside, lay on the ground and look at what was a sky of amazing clouds that day. George Calvert was his name, and he was an artist as well as a teacher, and so committed to opening young people’s eyes that he gave classes after school as well.

Every time I see an article, or hear a news story, about one of our schools having to cut their budget, and doing it by cutting classes in the arts, I think about Mr. Calvert and how much he gave me at the time when I needed, and could absorb it, the most. Then when I visited these friends’ websites I thought of him again…although they both studied with many, one also had Mr. Calvert in grade school, and the other lists him as one of her teachers. Could it be that he helped open them up to the world around them as well?

And how many others? What a shame that society in general doesn’t seem to realize the importance of the arts in our lives and how they can be used to draw (no pun intended) young people onto the yellow brick road leading to better lives for themselves and those around them. I, for one, hope that the next rowdy protest I hear about is one outside a school that is cutting its arts classes!

Judith Art-Is-Indispensable Drake, blogger for In The Trenches Productions, The First Entertainment Website Celebrating the Power and Beauty of Women Over 40

Published in: Life | on June 18th, 2008 | No Comments »

OK, I’M PUTTING HILLARY TO REST———for now.

It’s over, I’m a realist and I get it that Hillary will not be the democratic nominee. I’m the gal that not too long ago did the blog SOMEBODY PLEASE HELP ME LET GO OF HILLARY CLINTON!!!!!!!!!!!! I appreciate so much the responses I received, thank you.

This may be a bit odd but I have decided to answer my own blog. Now normally “The Women Over 40 Rock” blog from In the Trenches Productions isn’t a political site but since it wants women over 40 to succeed in their endeavors, I thought this could be a slight exception. After all Hillary is a woman, she is over 40, and she is truly succeeding in her endeavors.

To answer my own blog, it’s simply this—SHE DID NOT GIVE UP EVEN WHEN THE OBSTACLES WERE GREAT, UNTIL THERE WAS NO OTHER RESPONSIBLE OPTION. To be political for just a moment, I was upset in 2000 when Al Gore, and some of his advisors, didn’t fight until the very end in Florida. (check out HBO’s RECOUNT if you haven’t already done so). Then there was John Kerry giving up too early in Ohio in 2004 when there were so many irregularities in the voting there that were being reported. (and which since have been proven to be true and would have changed the course of history). These are examples of quitting too soon. I believe that for the most part women just try harder, they have too. Women have to fight hard when they are told they can’t get the job they want, the health care they need, the lifestyle they desire, or what is best for their child. (does anyone fight harder than a Mother to get what is necessary for her child when it has been denied? I don’t think so).

So, right or wrong, I loved her spunk. I loved Hillary’s will to fight on,against all odds, to get what she wanted. That’s what we all need to do—in big things and little things. Us gals can’t give up just because what we want is hard or that we have been told that we can’t have it. I know this isn’t easy and I myself am rarely successful but Hillary has been a good example for me, and I hope for you too. So, LET US ALL FIGHT ON!!!!!!!!!

Claire Callaway, blogger for In the Trenches Productions, The First Entertainment Website that celebrates the power and beauty of women over 40.

Published in: Opinion | on June 16th, 2008 | 1 Comment »

Sexism - One Big Joke

Sexism. Oh yeah, it’s alive and brought to you this primary season by cable news and their staff of commentator/comedians. We’ve witnessed sexism as one big joke brought to you by the good ole boys club. It’s in Tucker Carlson’s remark about Hillary on MSNBC, “When she comes on TV, I involuntarily cross my legs.” Really hilarious, Tucker. It’s Chris Matthews chuckling as he wondered whether Nancy Pelosi will castrate Democratic Majority Leader, Steny Hoyer. It’s Fox News’ Marc Rudov’s comment, “When Hillary Clinton speaks, men hear ‘take out the garbage’.” Oh yeah, that’s a side-splitter. There was Chris Matthews on MSNBC teasingly calling Hillary a “she-devil”. On-screen a picture appeared of Hillary sprouting horns. Kind of sophomoric, wouldn’t you say?! Or the all male panel on Morning Joe laughing as MSNBC’s Mike Barnicle described Hillary as “looking like everyone’s first wife standing outside a probate court”. And Chris Matthews (again) suggesting that Clinton is not “a convincing mom” and said “modern women” like Clinton are unacceptable to “Midwest guys.” It was the Hillary nut cracker; the iron my shirts signs and the casual use of the ‘b’ word. At times it felt like we were back in the’60’s, certainly not the ‘70’s when no one dared to utter the “b” word in public commentary. It seems that we’ve gone backwards.
Turning sexist comments into “a joke” has allowed men to get away with this brand of humor. It’s harder to combat because the put-downs are said as a tease. It’s just the guys having a little fun. Not only is it tough to combat the on-air boys’ club but it’s tough to deal with sexism in the work place. The ‘b’ word and the hated ‘c’ word have openly invaded the work place and good luck making a complaint. Object to a sexist comment and you’re made fun of or you get the eye-roll, implying you’re one of those strident, feminist party-poopers. If you can’t take the comment, then maybe you shouldn’t try to play with the big boys. If you can’t take the comment maybe you can’t handle the rough banter of the locker room. You’re a whinny woman who can’t laugh at herself and take a little joke. You don’t ‘get’ the art of the male put down and, finally, you’re too humorless to play with the big boys. But really what it’s saying to women is – we don’t respect you and we don’t want you here.
What surprised me about the rabid personal attacks on Hillary was the lack of outcry from other women politicians and from the Democratic Party. But the good news is that her campaign has re-united women. The Women’s Media Center has put together a video “Sexism Sells, But We’re Not Buying.” They are also aggressively working to stamp out sexism in the media. In a New York Times article “Media Charged with Sexism in Clinton Coverage” I learned that The National Organization for Women and Emily’s list “are generating e-mail campaigns to the cable channels when they see sexism.”
So, while we won’t have a woman president in 2009, Hillary’s campaign has brought women together. In her moving speech suspending her campaign, Hillary said, “Although we weren’t able to shatter that highest, hardest glass ceiling this time, thanks to you, it’s got about eighteen million cracks in it. And the light is shining through like never before, filling us all with the hope and the sure knowledge that the path will be a little easier next time. That has always been the history of progress in America.” What we’ve learned from Hillary’s campaign is that there remains a lot of work to do regarding women’s issues. And that includes making our sons feel confident about themselves so they don’t have to participate in female put downs like the insecure cable news commentator/comedians.

Jan Bina, blogger for In the Trenches Productions Website, the first entertainment website that celebrates the power and beauty of women over 40.

Published in: Opinion | on June 13th, 2008 | 1 Comment »

CALLING ALL FILMMAKERS….

At least those with sense and intelligence enough to make films starring women over 40! Our website, geared to the purpose of making the media and the world in general take more notice of  our huge, under-served (not to say totally ignored) section of our population, has made and posted several lovely, charming and sometimes humorous short films over the last few years. And from the responses we’ve had, and chatting with our own friends and friends of friends, we began to realize that we are not alone.

There are lots of you out there! So we decided to make it easier for you to make your statements too. We want to support you other filmmakers out there who, like us, feel that its time to show the world that there really are fantastic actresses over 40 out here, and that stories don’t have to star 20 year olds to be relevant, engaging, and downright fantastic. So if you’ve got one of these relevant, engaging and downright fantastic short films starring women over 40 and will resonate with women, you can upload them right now to In The Trenches Productions Entertainment Website! Just click on SUBMIT/UPLOAD  for the instructions on how to join us and shout out to the entertainment world that we are underserved and under appreciated and we ain’t gonna take it anymore!!
Judith Over-40-And-Still-Relevant Drake, blogger for In The Trenches Productions Entertainment Website, the first entertainment website celebrating the power and beauty of women over 40

Published in: Announcements | on June 11th, 2008 | 1 Comment »

OH HOW I MISS MY CRANFORD LADIES!!!!!!!!!!!!!

How many of you got the chance to see the series CRANFORD on PBS Masterpiece Theatre? I hope a lot of you did and I bet that those of you who saw it enjoyed it as much as I did. If you didn’t see it this first time around then you must make the extra effort to catch it the next time it plays, or rent it, or borrow it, or buy it for goodness sakes because it’s that good!!!!!! Besides this period piece being so well written, acted, directed, and steeped in gorgeous details it was filled with so many lead female characters over the age of 40. These characters were everything—-smart, brave, kind, courageous, stubborn, industrious, vain, silly, loving, beautiful, homely, helpful, wise, adventuresome, and progressive. (Well as much as a woman living in the English countryside could be in the 1840’s).

The women from CRANFORD were from different classes and yet they cared about and learned from each other. At times they were in love, out of love, looking for love, or not caring about love which made them happy, sad, angry, lonely, fearful, jealous, mean—-everything a woman feels. The exciting difference being these were older women and lots of them. In our media today this is a rare occurrence.

It was uplifting for me to care so much about these women and their ordeals and to look forward to what would happen to them next. Everything about this production was superb. Now it is over and I will miss it and I will miss the women but what I think I will miss the most is that I may not see this kind of excellence in utilizing the lives and talents of women over 40 for a long time.

Watching talented female actresses who are over the age of 40 portraying women of 40 or over who are so essential to the story shouldn’t be such a rarity. It isn’t true in life so why should it be in film. Maybe I’ll be wrong and CRANFORD’S success will encourage other productions that include so importantly the value of older women. What do you think?

PS. I must say that the male characters over 40 in CRANFORD were well written and acted as well–but then we’ve come to expect that haven’t we. I’m just hoping that we can even the opportunities for women.

Claire Callaway, blogger for In the Trenches Productions, The First Entertainment Website Celebrating the Power and Beauty of Women Over 40

Published in: Bravo | on June 9th, 2008 | 1 Comment »